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In a bustling Mexican household, seven-year-old Sol is swept up in a whirlwind of preparations for the birthday party for her father, Tona, led by her mother, aunts and other relatives. As the day goes on, building to an event both anticipated and dreaded, Sol begins to understand the gravity of the celebration this year and watches as her family does the same. This poignant and emotionally expansive film from Lila Avilés (The Chambermaid) cements her skill at directing dynamic ensemble performances in her stunning sophomore effort.

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A heartfelt film that tells a poignant story without straying into sentimentality, Tótem is a life-affirming triumph for writer-director Lila Avilés.

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Tótem (2023) | Rotten Tomatoes (1) Stephen Romei The Australian Mesmerising, beautiful, sad and hopeful all at once. Aug 7, 2024 Full Review Tótem (2023) | Rotten Tomatoes (2) Moira MacDonald Seattle Times It’s difficult to make this sort of film, in which nothing of great dramatic import happens on screen, but Avilés has an ace up her sleeve: Sentíes, a first-time actor who carries the movie on her quietly expressive face. Rated: 3.5/4 Mar 20, 2024 Full Review Tótem (2023) | Rotten Tomatoes (3) Sergio Burstein Los Angeles Times Confirms Avilés as a great creator of realistic situations while not having to resort to artifice to move the viewer. [Full review in Spanish] Feb 20, 2024 Full Review Tótem (2023) | Rotten Tomatoes (4) William Stottor Loud and Clear Reviews Lila Avilés’ second feature, Tótem, is an expertly crafted family drama that finds human connection and clashes within confined interiors. Rated: 4/5 Sep 3, 2024 Full Review Tótem (2023) | Rotten Tomatoes (5) Cris Kennedy Inner East Review Avilés slowly builds a very powerful film, inviting us inside this home and allowing us to quietly care for her subjects while allowing us to come to our own conclusions about the spiritual or ethical motivations of each. Rated: 4/5 Aug 14, 2024 Full Review Tótem (2023) | Rotten Tomatoes (6) Kristian M. Lin Fort Worth Weekly The gradual accretion of detail and the casual sketches of the various party guests are the mark of a master. Mar 18, 2024 Full Review Read all reviews

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Roy J It's like Monsoon Wedding but a Mexican birthday...saddest birthday ever. Rated 5/5 Stars • Rated 5 out of 5 stars 02/14/24 Full Review Wayne M Totem is a beautiful gem of a film. It's small in scope but enormous in heart, passion and human empathy. Set over one day it marks director Lila Aviles as a talent of great significance and promise. The film takes place in Mexico, mostly in one house setting. Seven year old Sol is being taken to her grandfather's house to celebrate the birthday of her father, Tona. Sadly Tona is critically ill and as the film goes on we get the feleing his days are numbered. The first half of the film is mainly an observance of the work being done by Sol's aunts as they frantically prepare for everything that needs to be done for the party. Sol is wide eyed and smart and takes it all in. The second half shows the party and the many friends who gather to celebrate Tona. It's a joyous occasion but one that is also bittersweet. There is not much plot here, but this superb film does a great job at the showing the joys and pains of life and the vital human connections we share. It's a cast probably not well known, but they do a superb job in a truly wonderful film. Rated 4/5 Stars • Rated 4 out of 5 stars 07/30/24 Full Review Alec B It captures certain messy and frantic family dynamics well but it doesn't add up to much more than "family is complicated and death it hard". Rated 3/5 Stars • Rated 3 out of 5 stars 07/15/24 Full Review dave d I enjoyed the first film Lila Avilés gave us, but this one didn't connect for whatever reason. We're looking at the world through a kids eyes, but why do I care about the characters and why is so little told to us about each one. The sense of gloom wasn't enough to bridge the gap of why I should be caring about these people. Frustrating, in large part, due to the way the film pulls together well at the end. Didn't understand the last few shots and perhaps I didn't get the Mexican Feature either! Final Score: 5/10 Rated 2.5/5 Stars • Rated 2.5 out of 5 stars 07/25/24 Full Review Jorge C Lamentablemente, tengo muy malos recuerdos de las fiestas familiares en casa de los abuelos cuando era niño. Rated 3.5/5 Stars • Rated 3.5 out of 5 stars 05/14/24 Full Review ANTONIO M Through the gaze of the little protagonist, the film immerses us in a special day, framing it like a photo in the 4:3 shooting format (both oppressive and not), and makes us feel empathy for her extended family. Second work by the Mexican Lila Avilés, it is an interesting choral fresco, bittersweet, poetic, touching that celebrates life and death, love and art in all their forms and connections. An intimate, personal film that feeds on the bonds between the different individuals of the group; which rests on the variable and indefinite characteristics of human relationships when faced with harsh and irreversible changes; and which here are filtered through the expressive eyes of the little protagonist Naíma Sentíes, the true soul and driving force of the story (despite her very young age, she seems very mature and more sensitive than some adults), catalyst and spur of noble intentions and acts of generous love . The director identifies with her, suspends judgments on facts and people, and invites the viewer to participate emotionally in the events - sad and joyful at the same time. In short, a delicate and sensitive film that surprises and involves. A portrait full of nuances in which every viewer can recognize insights into their own life and human and family experience. Rated 4/5 Stars • Rated 4 out of 5 stars 03/21/24 Full Review Read all reviews

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Lila Avilés Director Naíma Sentíes Sol Montserrat Marañón Nuria Marisol Gasé Alejandra Saori Gurza Ester Mateo Garcia Tonatiuh
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Synopsis In a bustling Mexican household, seven-year-old Sol is swept up in a whirlwind of preparations for the birthday party for her father, Tona, led by her mother, aunts and other relatives. As the day goes on, building to an event both anticipated and dreaded, Sol begins to understand the gravity of the celebration this year and watches as her family does the same. This poignant and emotionally expansive film from Lila Avilés (The Chambermaid) cements her skill at directing dynamic ensemble performances in her stunning sophomore effort.

Director
Lila Avilés

Producer
Louise Riousse, Lila Avilés, Tatiana Graullera

Screenwriter
Lila Avilés

Distributor
Sideshow / Janus Films

Production Co
Canibal Networks

Genre
Drama

Original Language
Spanish

Release Date (Theaters)
Jan 26, 2024, Limited

Box Office (Gross USA)
$100.2K

Runtime
1h 35m
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